Weekly Photo Challenge: Treasure

Daily treasures

I haven’t blogged for ages but I noticed this week’s challenge is Treasure. I came across this quote this week via A Design So Vast and it really resonated with me.  Lately I’ve been bored and restless so this is the reminder I needed to create the life I want. This photo is of my treasured husband and son. This week my son was accepted into the army and will be leaving us soon so I am mindful of how much I treasure him and how much he will be missed by us.


Top 5 books I’ve read this year

1. We Need New Names by NoViolet Bulawayo

This has replaced The Poisonwood Bible as my all time favourite book. The novel is narrated through the eyes of 11 year-old Darling, a Zimbabwean child who lives in grinding poverty. We see the world through her eyes, first as a child living in Zimbabwe and then as a teenager experiencing life as an illegal immigrant living with her Aunt in America. It is funny and grim and raw and enlightening.

2. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn

Nick and Amy are seemingly a perfect couple. Then on their fifth wedding anniversary Amy disappears. As the book progresses we discover that all was not well with the marriage and the mystery of Amy’s disappearance deepens. Without giving anything away there are some surprising twists and turns.

3. The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh

The Language of Flowers book cover

A novel about Victoria, a troubled young woman who has grown up in the foster system. Her story is intertwined with her gift  for understanding the meaning and language of flowers.  Beautiful and gripping.

“I’m talking about the language of flowers,” Elizabeth said. “It’s from the Victorian era, like your name. If a man gave a young lady a bouquet of flowers, she would race home and try to decode it like a secret message. Red roses mean love; yellow roses infidelity. So a man would have to choose his flowers carefully.”

4. Game of Thrones series by George R. R. Martin

You are either into this kind of fiction or you’re not. My family had to get used to me being absent until I had waded through all the books in the series so far. Total escapism.

5. Anna Karenina by Leo Tolstoy

The tragic tale of the beautiful and unhappily married Anna and her affair with the dashing Count Vronsky.

This novel was first published in Russia in 1873 yet it’s themes of morality, love and family still resonate tonday. It “explores and illuminates the deepest questions about how to live a fulfilled life.” from Goodreads.


Today my daughter turns 12. She is funny, interesting, smart, beautiful and sassy. This is for you Lily!


“You is kind. You is smart. You is important.” K Stockett

This quote always makes me think of you. It reminds me of your new-found interest in social justice issues, our time snuggling up on the couch watching movies and that you are so kind, so smart and so important.

You are kind.

You have an uncanny knack in knowing when the someone is feeling down and when they need to know a friend is near.

When I have been sick you’ve made cups of tea and ask if I’m feeling better. Sometimes you quietly hop into bed with me and lie next to me to keep me company.

After the very first birthday party you attended, you came home and happily handed over your lolly bag without reservation to share with the rest of your greedy family and have continued to do that to this day. Always generous and always willing to share.

You are smart.

Sometimes you say you feel like you are dumb at school. What you don’t see is that the other academically smart kids don’t necessarily have the skills you have to make friends, get organised, take risks and make things happen. You have smarts that a lot of adults don’t have.

You can make new friends seemingly effortlessly. You know how people are feeling and can respond and emphathise with them. You can sense when someone is feeling fear, anger, joy or sadness.

You are super- organised. You have always know how to get to other people’s houses, what to pack for a dance concert and exactly how long it will take to arrive somewhere.

You are willing to try any new activity whether or not your friends are interested. Then you give it your all until you have mastered that new skill. You learned to ride a bike at 4, swim at 5 and to dance at 6.

You are fearless. You have ridden elephants, camels, horses and a yak. You have abseiled, jumped through canyons, trekked in Nepal and faced your fears riding rescue boards in the surf at Bondi.

You make things happen because you are determined and focused.


You are important.

Oh boy are you important! You are loved and admired by your family and friends. Having you in our lives makes the world seem a brighter place and and certainly a whole lot more interesting.

Now you are growing from being a girl to a young woman your gaze is starting to focus outwards. You have become interested in social justice books, people and films. You are interested in what happens to individuals in difficult circumstances and how they strive to overcome difficulties. You are fascinated about reproduction and soak up knowledge on that subject with enthusiasm.

This is the last year of your girlhood. Next year you will turn 13 and become a teenager and I can’t wait to see the brave, smart and strong young woman that you will become.

Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. A.A. Milne

With lots of love on your birthday xxx from your Mum

Weekly Photo Challenge: Focus

I am always amazed at people’s ingenuity and creativity. In Nepal on a trek we stopped for the night at a very small guest-house. Despite the signs that the owners had very little they had made efforts to make the garden and courtyard look attractive. They have hung up corn to dry to use for later in the year when it isn’t possible to grow it. They had also planted gorgeous flowers around the courtyard.

focus, corn, Nepal

Corn hung up to dry in Nepal

Flowers in Nepal;

Flowers in focus in Nepal


This is my response to Weekly Photo Challenge: Focus

Travel Theme: Play

The Importance of Play

Most of us know that children and babies learn through play. It is a universal and fundamental human right that all children have opportunities for free time and to play. I have always found delight in travelling to other countries and watching how children interpret their own environment and create games and toys out of what seems like very little.  These kids obviously didn’t have much but I love that they had created some toys using found objects and were playing happily when we met them.

play, Zanzibar

Local kids on the beach with toys they had created from stuff they found on the beach. Zanzibar, Tanzania

This is my response to Where’s My Backpack’s Travel theme: Play